Do you control your anger or does your anger control you?

Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm to the end.  Proverbs 29:11 Letting anger control you will result in poor impulse control. Without self-control, you are at risk of making choices that harm you or others.  Learning how to manage your emotions is a skill you were supposed to learn … Read more

Read the Fine Print; It says love and forgive everyone.

If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them.   Luke 6:32 God commands us to love one another. He also commands us to forgive.  For many of us, love and forgiveness might depend upon the degree of harm, the sense of remorse and the degree … Read more

Tips for Defusing relationship conflict

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A hot-tempered man causes arguments but a patient man calms a quarrel Proverbs 15:18 If you truly desire to find peace with your coparent you will need to give up blame and unforgiveness. However, is hard to know what to replace our destructive responses with when attempting to defuse conflict. There is much written on … Read more