Do you keep taking the bait?
Learning self control so that you do not respond quickly.
Conflict
Are you interested in becoming one of God’s peacemakers?
God blesses those people who make peace. They will be called his children. Matthew 5:9 God loves the peacemakers. We are called to love one and other and not create conflict. In an attempt to make peace, imagine building a bridge to get to your coparent’s side. First step is you must be committed to … Read more
Is being non-reactive helpful or a sign of passivity?
But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right check, turn to them the other cheek also. Matthew 5:39 NIV Jesus teaches about diffusing conflict by being non-reactive rather than letting conflict escalate. He commands we stop the cycle by a willingness to suffer wrong. … Read more
When was the last time your mouth got you into trouble?
When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent Proverbs 10:19 ESV There are times when you may be tempted to respond when you know it will only make matters worse. This can happen in person, by phone or email. Writing reactive responses allows us to go on and … Read more
How is coparent competition and envy dangerous?
Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another Galatians 5:26 The Apostle Paul in Galatians, warns us not to compete with others. He also warns about being conceited and causing envy which is often the result of competition. Social media and the selfie movement have encouraged people consciously … Read more
How can becoming intentional, reduce coparent conflict?
What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them. Matthew 15:11 The Bible warns about the danger of allowing ourselves to say whatever crosses our minds. Scripture states that the mouth can speak light and darkness. We show ourselves by what spills … Read more
How can acceptance help when you’re suffering?
In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world. John 16:33 ESV Acceptance is a recovery concept full of potential. It helps you work through anger, sadness, and shame. Acceptance should be your goal for a truly healthy life. So, if you want to find peace with your … Read more
How can you be a joyful giver when you are so hurt or angry?
Let all you do, be done in love. 1 Corinthians 16:14 ESV The story of the good Samaritan illustrates that sometimes it is the most unlikely person who steps up and does the right thing. Those who were first to encounter the victim on the road had great status, acted righteous and did nothing. … Read more
Can you successfully calm your mind?
The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? Psalm 118:6 When you are afraid, your thoughts will determine how anxious you become and how long you take to calm down. Your thoughts will either fuel negative emotions like fear and anger or they will soothe … Read more
How does resentment solidify your anger?
Don’t sin by letting anger control you… Psalm 4:4 When you are suffering in an unbearably unjust situation, your anger may turn to resentment. If you attach … Read more