Can learning the skill of observing counter your being judgmental?

   To fear the Lord is to hate evil; I hate pride and arrogance, evil behavior and perverse speech.  Proverbs 8:13 According to Dr. John Gottman’s theory on couple’s communication, he observed patterns of communication that stand out in couples who are at risk of divorce. The first of the three types is the critical … Read more

How does pride interfere with the ability to make requests?

  But they did not listen or pay attention; instead, they followed the stubborn inclinations of their evil hearts.  Jeremiah 7:24   No one likes to be told what to do.  As a result, it is wise to watch your word choice to avoid using demanding communication.  Notice the subtle difference in this example: “You … Read more

How can I transform myself?

How can I transform myself? Some people believe change is impossible. We all know that with God, all things are possible.  With God’s help, transforming yourself is a miracle worth achieving. This blog is an outline of the seven steps found in the webinar “Transform Conflict by Transforming Yourself” found on www.cooperativeparentinginstitute.com.   Step 1 – Reflect … Read more