CoParenting and King Solomon’s Advice

Most of us are familiar with the story of King Solomon and the two women both claiming the infant was her child.  He skillfully determined that the real mother would be willing to make a sacrifice. So King Solomon in his wisdom, ordered the guard to cut the infant in half.  Of course the mother … Read more

Tips for Defusing relationship conflict

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A hot-tempered man causes arguments but a patient man calms a quarrel Proverbs 15:18 If you truly desire to find peace with your coparent you will need to give up blame and unforgiveness. However, is hard to know what to replace our destructive responses with when attempting to defuse conflict. There is much written on … Read more

Do you recognize your true self or are you in denial?

  For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Roman 3:23 ESV Drama may occur in your life, especially around you and your co-parent.  Yet the most powerful warfare occurs within us.  The truth is we are all made up of a duality of darkness and light.  A primal split occurs … Read more

How can I transform myself?

How can I transform myself? Some people believe change is impossible. We all know that with God, all things are possible.  With God’s help, transforming yourself is a miracle worth achieving. This blog is an outline of the seven steps found in the webinar “Transform Conflict by Transforming Yourself” found on www.cooperativeparentinginstitute.com.   Step 1 – Reflect … Read more